October 12th, 2016
NEVER THINK!back to blog listing
Remember just a second ago how I said "all you need to do is think about it
before you approach a woman and your mind will be at ease"? Well that's
the last thing you should think about... once you've put your mind at ease
turn it off and just begin taking action without thinking about it... forget
consequences, they don't exist anymore until you've got her number.
Thinking is BAD when approaching women, don't think about:
What you should say
If she will reject you or not
If she feels attracted to you
If you’re dressed well enough
If you’re tall enough
Good looking enough
Have bad breath
Have enough hair
Women sense weakness – and ruminating over that which makes you
insecure will smell of weakness.
And definitely don't think about your surroundings; forget about the other
people near you and worrying if they are looking at you. DON'T THINK.
"Well if I'm not supposed to think... then how will I even talk?"
Good question... here's how:
I'm not telling you to try to block thoughts from entering your mind... that's
impossible unless you've been a monk for the past 20 years. I'm simply
telling you not to THINK about them once they are in there, and this is how
you do that while still being able to talk...
ALWAYS say something related to the first thing that pops into your head...
say it without thinking about it. If the first thing that pops into your head is
"I don't know what to say"... then say just that! Say to her "I don't know
what to say, you’re so hot I can't stop looking at your body" or for a teasing
approach "I don't know what to say... I'm still trying to figure out if I want
your number or not". If the first thought that enters your mind is "What if
she isn't attracted to me?" then go ahead and ask her! Say "Do you find me
to be attractive? Because I think you’re hot and we'd look really good
together". Get the idea? It's all about NOT thinking about anything and just
acting on impulse.