NO FEAR NECESSARY: FEAR IS NOT AN OPTION
October 5th, 2016
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You are afraid to approach women because you’re afraid to fail. Fear cannot
be an option or you will by default fail. You’re either in the game or you’re
not. Anti up or don’t play. But remember, if you don’t play, it is just plain
impossible to win. If she shoots you down, pick yourself up, dust yourself
off and try again, probably best with someone else, unless you don’t mind
landing in the dust.About 9 out of 10 people are scared of conflict just like you. Even women
are scared of conflict and have fear. While you might be afraid she’ll reject
you, did it ever occur to you that she is worried that no one might even
bother to ask or approach her? Well, that is also a fact. So if you’re in the
game you have a 90% chance that the woman you are approaching is dealing
with her own conflict and fear, none of which has anything to do with you.
And why are women drawn to the stronger of two guys? Because the
stronger the guy, the greater his ability to reduce her personal anxiety.
What is likely to happen if you ask a woman out?
What are the chances she will say no?
What are the chances she will say yes?
You do the math. Will you survive? Of course you will.
What are the chances she will say yes if you never ask?
I’ll do the math. You will lose 100% of the time. The game is over!