October 1st, 2016

6- Never say "How about giving me your number?” Always use something
like "I'd like to talk to you again, is there a number where I can reach you”?
This always produces much better results because she must avoid saying
"no" or she will sound stupid because that will mean there is not a number
where she can be reached. It also makes you more original than every other
idiot that asks for her number.

7- Always wear cologne.  I'm not talking about cheap cologne like Preferred
Stock. If you want to spark a woman's interest, invest in a bottle of the good
stuff. The most primal of all senses is the sense of smell. Once you have
your own unique scent, you’ll be ingrained more deeply into her memory by
stimulating a sense that is often neglected.

8- Quit worrying about what to say next and focus your attention on
listening. She will give you leads as to what she would like to talk about, in
essence, telling you what to say next. For example: you say "How are you
doing?" she says "I got a 50 cent raise today, but then I got a flat tire on my
way home from work, so I guess I'm doing alright". She just gave you two
leads that hint at what she is willing to talk about; all you've got to do is pick

9- When rejected, just smile and walk away. Who cares what she thinks.
You probably won't see her again anyway. Besides, it's her loss; she just
missed out on a good time for free with a great guy. Go out looking to get
rejected, because once you become comfortable with women saying no, your
fear of rejection will be gone. Remember that the player who gets rejected
the most is the player who leaves with the most numbers!

10- Never talk too much or bring up subjects that will be boring to her. Let
her initiate the topics of discussion and do most of the talking while you
simply relate yourself to her statements by saying things like "me too". This
will make the two of you seem to have a lot in common and her opinion of
you will shoot through the roof.  Remember women like to talk and it’s the
rare man who is actually listening to, not ignoring or dismissing what she
has to say.

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