PROBLEMS TEND TO HEIGHTEN PASSION
September 24th, 2016
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Problems heighten the energy; intensify euphoria. Her mood will generally
turn into despair when things are going poorly and shift just as dramatically
to exhilaration when she feels assured that everything is going just fine.
Fine or not fine, it’s the excitement that keeps things fresh. She becomes the
star of her own soap opera. It’s that time in a relationship in the beginning
when all the chemicals and hormones are going through her body.
The moment she thinks you may be slipping away is the moment she likes
you more. If somebody she knows doesn’t like you, she may desire a closer
bond. That’s the way the game gets played. Real separation anxiety, when
things are going poorly, causes an intense desire for sex and sexual
exclusivity. It’s when the passion is highest.
Without friction, there is no fire, so keep things off balance and you’ll keep
the excitement level high.