September 14th, 2016


Unfortunately, what you do with your hands can be one of the quickest nonverbal
ways to destroy the attraction a woman feels for you, because the
hand movements can communicate that you are a low-status, beta
To make matters worse, your hands can be particularly tough to manage
because, let's face it, when you feel nervous, the hardest thing in the world is
figuring out what to do with your hands!
For success with your dating and seduction of women, make sure you don't
make the following body language mistakes with your hands.

MISTAKE ONE (Displaying your anxiety with your hands)


1) Shred napkins.
2) Clench your fists.
3) Sit on your hands.
4) Hold something and play with it.
5) Twiddle your fingers or thumbs.
6) Hold your hands unnaturally still.
7) Sit on your hands to avoid having the woman see them tremble.
Although you might be feeling nervous, the last thing you want to do is to let
the woman detect you feel that way.
Instead you want to convey that you're calm and in control. Nothing attracts
a woman more than an alpha male who's laid back and confident.

MISTAKE TWO  (Putting your fingers into your mouth)

When you bite your nails or otherwise chew on your fingers, you are,
according to psychologists, doing the same thing that infants are doing when
they suck their mother's breast.
For a baby, breast feeding provides comfort. When we became toddlers, our
thumbs replaced our mom's nipple.
And then as adults, biting our thumbnail does the same thing. Ever noticed
that when you're out in public, you mainly bite your nails when you're under

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